Travel consent, passports and relocation
How you handle taking your child abroad, getting passports and moving away: either parent freely, notice and itineraries, or joint consent.
What do we agree about passports, travel consent and moving away with the child?
In short: Parents choose between 3 main approaches: Either parent travels freely with the child; Notice and itinerary; Joint consent for international travel or moves. Evidence: your call. No outcome evidence picks a winner. Preference, culture, money and logistics decide. Best settled: 0–6 months.
- Evidence
- Your call
- Best settled
- 0–6 months
- Part of
- The family system
Travel consent, passports and relocation: what are the options?
Parents usually land on one of these 3 approaches.
1. Either parent travels freely with the child
Either of you can take the child anywhere without asking.
2. Notice and itinerary
The travelling parent tells the other in advance and shares the plans.
3. Joint consent for international travel or moves
Both of you must agree before the child leaves the country or moves.
Travel consent, passports and relocation: what does the evidence say?
Your call. No outcome evidence picks a winner. Preference, culture, money and logistics decide.
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What else is worth knowing?
Border officials may ask a parent travelling alone with a child for a consent letter from the other parent. Passport applications for a child usually need both parents. Deciding your own rule about travel and moving avoids conflict.
Questions to ask each other
- Would either of us travel alone with the child?
- What documents and permissions do we need to put in place?
- How would we handle a move?
More in Legal, financial and "what if" planning
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- Pregnancy loss
- Special needs, disability and neurodivergence
- If the child is not who we expected (temperament, interests, ability, gender expression)
- Major life disruptions (job loss, serious illness, death of a parent, ageing grandparents, moving)
- If we separate
First published 2026-10-03. Last updated 2026-10-05. General information, not medical advice.