Who it helps
Parenting alignment, whatever stage you are at
The app is the same for everyone: each of you answers the same questions, then you compare. Where you start, and how you use it, depends on your situation.
- Expecting couplesAgree on the big calls before the baby arrives98 of the 281 decisions in the app are best settled during pregnancy or at the birth. Go through them together, a few at a time. Start with the 16 cornerstone decisions at this stage, because they shape many of the others.
- New parentsStay on the same page through the first year36 decisions in the app belong to the first year (0–12 months), from sleep training to starting solids. Take them one at a time, together: each shows the options and how strong the evidence is. Start with the area causing the most friction.
- Co-parentsAgree on the essentials across two homesEach co-parent answers the same questions separately, on their own device. One exports their answers as a file and the other imports it to see where the two homes match. The app covers decisions, such as discipline, screens, bedtime and money. It does not handle schedules, messages or expenses.
- Getting back in syncReset when you keep having the same argumentTake the decisions you keep arguing about one at a time, with the real options and the evidence in front of you both. If the conversation tends to go the same way every time, answer separately first: Compare then shows where you match and where you differ. Start with how you decide and who does what, because those shape the rest.