# Independence milestones (playing outside, walking to school, home alone, transit)

**At what age can a child play outside, walk to school or stay home alone?**

When your child is allowed to do things alone: play outside, walk to school, stay home, take public transport. There is usually no fixed legal age.

In short: Parents choose between 4 main approaches: Late, always supervised; At community-norm ages; Early and graduated; Free roaming. Evidence: your call. No outcome evidence picks a winner. Preference, culture, money and logistics decide. Best settled: school age.

- Area: Safety, risk and independence
- Evidence: Your call
- Best settled: School age
- First published: 2026-10-03
- Last updated: 2026-10-05
- Page: https://www.raisingyourchild.com/topics/safety-risk-and-independence--independence-milestones-playing-outside-walking-to-school-home-alone-transit

## Independence milestones: what are the options?

1. **Late, always supervised**: The child does these things later than most, and with an adult.
2. **At community-norm ages**: The child does them at the ages usual where you live.
3. **Early and graduated**: The child starts early, with freedoms added one step at a time.
4. **Free roaming**: The child goes where they like without check-ins.

## Independence milestones: what does the evidence say?

**Your call.** No outcome evidence picks a winner. Preference, culture, money and logistics decide. (Values, bounded by law)

As of April 2026, thirteen US states (Utah, Oklahoma, Texas, Colorado, Connecticut, Virginia, Illinois, Montana, Georgia, Florida, Missouri, Indiana and Kansas) have "reasonable childhood independence" laws saying that letting a child do age-appropriate things alone, such as playing outside or walking to a friend's house, is not by itself neglect; a bipartisan federal bill, the Promoting Childhood Independence and Resilience Act, was introduced in May 2026. Elsewhere there is no set age: Canada has no national minimum age, and two provinces set 12

Sources:

- [Let Grow](https://letgrow.org/states/)
- [National Law Review](https://natlawreview.com/press-releases/bipartisan-federal-bill-introduced-protect-childhood-independence-and)
- [Canadian Child Welfare Research Portal](https://cwrp.ca/sites/default/files/publications/Legal%20Age%20for%20Leaving%20Children%20Unsupervised%20Across%20Canada%20%282021%29.pdf)

## What else is worth knowing?

There is no agreed age for these steps, and few places set one in law. They depend on the child, the neighborhood and what other families do. Agreeing on rough ages now avoids a disagreement when your child first asks.

## Questions to ask each other

- What were we allowed to do alone and at what age?
- What would we feel comfortable with at 8, 10 and 12?
- How will we decide when our child is ready?

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General information, not medical advice. Two parents can each answer this and compare: https://www.raisingyourchild.com/explore?cat=safety-risk-and-independence&topic=safety-risk-and-independence--independence-milestones-playing-outside-walking-to-school-home-alone-transit